The word “Sex” pumps adrenaline and dopamine in all individuals and makes them alert, inquisitive and aware. Everyone wants to know more and more about sex, it makes their hair stand on end and people want to know just about everything about sex about others, celebrities, their neighbors, friends and all.Inspite of wanting to know soooooooo……. much its still a taboo topic and kept under wraps and hidden.
This action has spread illicit relationships,premarital sex,sexual abuse,sexual harassment and also prostitution!
Sexually Explicit Xtremism is the definition we follow about Sex whereas we need to follow Sensually Erotic Xtremism.
Sensually Erotic Xtremism is possible with Sex Education. Our scriptures especially Kamasutra advises sensual and sexual bliss with one partner after marriage!!!Salvation is possible with sensual and sexual bliss and it is a means to salvation and sacred like any religious or spiritual ceremony that we perform.
In the earlier centuries the subject was considered as taboo because we were ruled by French, British and Moguls and they treated women as objects of sexual pleasure and not as independent consenting individuals who have their own free will, thought and self respect.Women were ostracized from the society and punished if they exercised their free will or they expressed their choice even in the matter of food or clothes. Such was the pathetic stage in the earlier centuries and we are still in parts of our society and villages carrying that baggage of thought and culture! We need to empower women in this century and teach men too respect women and their free will and their self respect!!!
Even 90% married couples do not experience bliss in their relationships inspite of being loyal to each other!!!Here we need training and coaching of the most pleasurable sexual positions and likes and dislikes about each other and understanding each other in mind, body and soul to complement each other rather than compete with each other.
Prompt proposal, project and program management is what the need of the hour in Sex education is!!!!!!
Sexuality also is a prey to obstacles laid by society where sex education is considered taboo and wrong and misguided information is floated in the media by so called experts who are worshipped as ultimate sources of right knowledge on Sex!!! Sex has also become a victim of pharmaceutical companies looking forward to sell and multiply the use of condoms and sildenafil citrate a cardiac drug used for sexual problems!!!!! If the couple takes care of each other’s likes and dislikes and proper hygiene and timing (with respect to the menstrual cycle and planet transits which bring about disturbances in mind and body).
Slander and trends again make a victim of sex as people want to act and perform like their celebrity gurus and be like them forgetting the fact that they are an individual in themselves and even two twins are different and have different choices and disparities in the way they think, feel and act.People need to understand their unique identity and practice unique sex with their partners as per the guidelines of Kamasutra ,remembering the fact that sex is not just play or enjoyment ,it is a responsibility encompassing self and society and country as reproduction is a responsibility.
So practice SAFE SEX by undergoing Sex Education and Development.